Dating Abuse in College

1 in 5 college students reports dating abuse (either physical, emotional or sexual) by a current partner.¹

College freshmen are most likely to experience abuse by a dating partner.²

Why is dating abuse in college unique?

There are many barriers to leaving an abusive relationship, and living on a college campus presents additional ones. For example, the abuser might live in the same dorm or take some of the same classes as the victim, and stalking is much easier for an abuser when both the abuser and the victim are living on a campus. In addition, there may be a lack of a "trustworthy adult" for a college student to confide in, and without help the victim may not be able to leave an abusive relationship.

Where can I get help on a college campus?

• If you are in immediate danger, call campus security, and seek medical attention if you have been injured.
• For help making a decision about a relationship, or for help leaving a relationship, try visiting the counseling center, health center, or the women's center.
• Find out if your school has an anonymous and confidential helpline. For a list of national helplines and other resources,  click here.
• Many schools have policies about harassment, so if you or someone you know is having problems with an abuser, talk to your campus authorities about having class schedules or dorm rooms changed.

How can I help make sure I'm safe?

• Just like on any campus, don't walk alone at night or in places where there is very little foot traffic.
• Always have your cell phone with you.
• Know where campus security officers and panic buttons are located.
• Tell your professors so they know to look out for problems while you are in class, and tell your resident assistants so they look out for you in your dorm.
• If you think you are being stalked, contact campus security.

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¹Sellers, C. and Bromley, M. (1996). Violent behavior in college student dating relationships:Implications for campus providers. Journal of Contemporary Justice 12(1), 1-27.

²Smith et. al. (2003). A longitudinal perspective on dating violence among adolescent and college-age women. American Journal of Public Health 93(7), 1104-1109.