Clergy represent a unique and powerful resource for survivors of domestic abuse (a pattern of behavior used to maintain power and control over an intimate partner), by responding when made aware of it and in speaking out to encourage survivors to come forward.
According to JWI’s National Needs Assessment, two-thirds of clergy respondents reported that they have been approached by victims of domestic abuse and were often the first professional the survivor approached. The response of faith leaders can mean the difference between staying in an abusive relationship or leaving.
JWI’s Clergy Task Force (CTF)
JWI’s CTF is a diverse and inclusive group of rabbis and cantors promoting awareness of, and responsiveness to, this difficult issue through study guides, workshops, liturgical innovations and advocacy.
The CTF is committed to fostering a trauma-informed approach that centers survivors and ensures they receive the support they need.
To apply to be a member of the CTF, click here.
JWI’s 2021 National Needs Assessment on Domestic Violence in the Jewish Community
JWI’s in-depth 2021 analysis of survivors’ needs found U.S. Jewish communities substantially lacking in safe shelter, legal services, acknowledgement, support, and more. Our report on this groundbreaking research – the National Needs Assessment of Domestic Abuse in the Jewish Community – offers recommendations for new programs, collaborations, and funding priorities to ensure that Jewish survivors can safely remain and thrive in their communities.
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New report finds American Jewish community underserves domestic violence survivors | April 26, 2021, The Forward
JWI initiates new conversation on domestic violence | April 26, 2021, eJewish Philanthropy
How Jewish Communities Are Failing Victims of Domestic Violence | May 3, 2021, The New York Jewish Week
Clergy Guide & Tip Sheets on Supporting Survivors
This resource equips clergy with guidance to recognize, respond to, and support individuals experiencing domestic violence. The guide covers the dynamics of abuse, the critical role of faith leaders, and key considerations for offering survivor-centered support. The accompanying tip sheets offers quick steps to help clergy respond in real-time situations.
Liturgical & Lifecycle Resources
A collection of prayers, sermon ideas, and lifecycle resources that clergy can integrate into their own services and teachings to raise awareness about domestic abuse, offer spiritual support to survivors
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Preparing for Marriage Use during premarital counseling and/or provide to the couple
Resources & Prayers for Funerals : Resources for Clergy for Funerals and Mourning When Abuse Is Part of the Family History
I. Issues and Approaches to Consider During Funeral Intake Meeting with Family
V. Suggested Eulogy Insert for A Deceased Person Who Has Caused Disruption in The Family
VI. Alternative/Supplementary El Maleh Rachamim when the deceased was a perpetrator of abuse
VII. Alternative Yizkor prayer when the deceased was a perpetrator of abuse.
VIII. Memorial Prayer for someone who was a victim of intimate-partner abuse
Text-Based Resources to Discuss Healthy Relationships
These guides and conversation cards combine classic Jewish texts with insights, questions, and ideas to help shape healthier relationships.
Use them in study groups, synagogues, college campuses, at home, or with friends.
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Download the Shabbat & Holiday Resources for Healthy Relationships
"Rethinking Shabbat: Women, Relationships & Jewish Texts"uses the Friday evening Shabbat service, along with midrash and modern commentary to start interesting conversations about healthy relationships.
"Rethinking Sukkot: A Modern Commentary on Relationships"uses the imagery of the Sukkah and the text of Ecclesiastes, Torah, liturgy, and rabbinic literature to start interesting conversations about relationships. Perfect for use in a sukkah! (Updated in 2024)
"Rethinking Purim: A Modern Commentary on Relationships"uses the Purim megillah, along with midrash and modern commentary to start interesting conversations about healthy relationships. (Updated in 2025)
"Rethinking Shavuot: A Modern Commentary on Relationships" uses the biblical story of Ruth, the heroine of this holiday, and midrash and modern commentary to start interesting conversations about healthy relationships.(Updated in 2025)
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Unboxed is a series of card decks inspired by Jewish text and traditions and designed to spark deep, meaningful conversations about family, love, and relationships. There are 52 cards in each deck, each providing an opportunity to spark thoughtful discussion around your views on relationships, your authentic identity, your needs in relationships – and how to meet them.
Gratitude: Filled with inspiring prompts around gratitude from a Jewish lens, for all ages.
Wisdom: Sparks conversation aboutJewish wisdom around aging, for adults ages 50+.
(Sold out: Shabbat: Infuses Shabbat tradition and wisdom into conversations around healthy relationships.)
Order Unboxed here.
Webinars
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The Elephant in the Room: Sexual Harassment in Synagogues
Creating the Community We Want to Have: Barriers and Opportunities
Recording / Exercise for Organizational Leadership
Shifting the Culture: Policies and Practices to Create Safe Spaces
Articles
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2022
Four decades of facing domestic violence in the Jewish community — Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Apr 11, 2022, eJewishPhilanthropy
2021
Faith Leaders Highlight How the American Jobs Plan Invests in U.S. Communities — May 7, 2021, Center for American Progress
Domestic abuse surged under COVID-19. Clergy need better tools to help survivors.— Rabbi Donna Kirschbaum, May 6, 2021, Religion News Service (republished from Washington Post)
Confronting Domestic Abuse — May 4, 2021, Arizona Jewish News
For Far Too Many Women, Surviving Domestic Violence Means Losing their Community — May 4, 2021, Thrive Global
How Jewish Communities Are Failing Victims of Domestic Violence — May 3, 2021, JTA (New York Jewish Week)
New report finds American Jewish community underserves domestic violence survivors — Apr 26, 2021, The Forward
JWI initiates new conversation on domestic violence — Apr 26, 2021, eJewishPhilanthropy
Shalom bayit, baked into the Shabbat meal — Rav Sean Gorman, Feb 4, 2021, eJewishPhilanthropy
JWI’s Clergy Task Force mourns the passing of Rabbi Abraham Twerski, M.D. — Feb 3, 2021, JWI
2020
On Chanukah, Domestic Violence, and Combat in the Streets — Rabbi Donna Kirschbaum, Dec 14, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
Acknowledging, But Not Yielding, To Despair — Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Nov 4, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
A New Mi sh’Beirach for those Suffering from Domestic Abuse — Rabbi Donna Kirschbaum, Oct 27, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
Clergy Must Help “Break the Cycle” — Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Oct 15, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
The Fragility and Isolation of Home — Deborah Rosenbloom, Oct 1, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
Bringing the High Holidays Home: Enhancing the Zoom Experience — Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Jul 21, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
Making Men Allies in Leading Equitable Workplaces — Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Jun 3, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
Addressing Domestic Violence in the Jewish Community at this time of Covid-19 — Rabbi David M. Rosenberg, May 8, 2020, eJewishPhilanthropy
2019
Shattering the Sounds of Silence at Rosh Hashanah — Sep 28, 2019, The Times of Israel
Sliver of the Full Moon: Where the Law Fails to Protect Abuse Victims — 2019, LEX, Drexel University Thomas R. Kline School of Law
2018
Unafraid to Speak — Deborah Rosenbloom, Mar 29, 2018, Sh’ma Now (reprinted by JWI)
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The Fragility and Isolation of Home
by Deborah Rosenbloom, October 1, 2020, eJewish Philanthropy
Unafraid to Speak
by Deborah Rosenbloom, March 29, 2018, Shma Now
CTF Membership
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Interested in joining the Clergy Task Force? Apply here.
The CTF invites rabbis, cantors, and chaplains to join our work.
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Co-Chairs
Rabbi Uri Topolosky
Kehilat Pardes, Rockville, MDRabbi Mikey Hess Webber
Columbia Jewish Center, Columbia, MDMembers
Cantor Dr. Melissa Adleman
Jewish Family Chavurah, Brunswick, MaineRabbi Marla R. Hornsten (former co-chair)
Temple Israel, West Bloomfield, MIRabbi Donna Kirshbaum
Bethlehem Hebrew Congregation, New HampshireRabbi Ari Lorge
Central Synagogue, New York, NYRabbi Mike Moskowitz
The Beacon Project, Union Theological Seminary, New York, NYRabbi Joshua Rabin
Astoria Center of Israel, Queens, NYRabbi David M. Rosenberg (former co-chair)
Jewish Child and Family Services, Chicago, ILRabbi Jonathan Rudnick
Jewish Family Services, Overland Park, KSRabbi Susan Shankman
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Rabbi Richard Address, Philadelphia, PA
Rabbi Rachel Ain, New York, NY
Rabbi Joe Black, Denver, CO
Rabbi Amy Ruth Bolton, New York, NY
Rabbi Nina Beth Cardin, Baltimore, MD
Rabbi Leah Citrin, Raleigh, NC
Rabbi Howard Cohen, Marshfield, MA
Rabbi Mychal Copeland, Stanford, CA
Rabbi Elliot Dorff, Los Angeles, CA
Rabbi Mark Dratch, Jerusalem, Israel
Rabbi Aderet Okon Drucker, The Den Collective, Bethesda, MD
Rabbi Sean Gorman, Toronto, ON, Canada
Rabbi Ben Greenberg, Israel
Rabbi Susan Grossman, Columbia, MD
Rabbi Ari Hart, Skokie, IL
Rabbi Richard Hirsh, Wynnewood, PA
Cantor Deborah Jacobson, Palm Harbor, FL
Cantor Deborah Katchko-Gray, Ridgefield, CT
Rabbi Esther Lederman, Washington, DC
Rabbi Diana Monheit, New York, NY
Rabbi Edythe Mencher, LCSW, New York, NY
Rabbi Ron Muroff, Chisuk Emuna Congregation, Harrisburg, PA
Rabbi Steven Reuben, Ph.D., Kehillat Israel, Pacific Palisades, CA
Rabbi Nicole K. Roberts, Sydney, NSW, Australia
Rabbi H. David Rose, Potomac, MD
Rabbi Elissa Sachs-Kohen, Baltimore, MD
Rabbi Rebecca Sirbu, New York, NY
Rabbi Andrea Steinberger, Madison, WI
Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb, Jerusalem, Israel
Rabbi Seth Winberg, Brandeis Hillel, Waltham, MA
Rabbi Irvin Wise, Cincinnati, OH
Here for You
Here for You Communities are local networks of Jewish communal organizations and staff working together to ensure that survivors of domestic abuse and their children are met with safety, compassion, and support at every point of contact.
Click here to learn more.