Training Jewish communities to recognize, respond to, and refer individuals experiencing domestic violence.
Jewish survivors of domestic violence often turn to the institutions at the heart of their communities — synagogues, schools, JCCs, and Jewish family service agencies — and the leaders and staff within them. JWI’s 2021 National Needs Assessment, “Domestic Violence in the Jewish Community,” found that Jewish communities, despite good intentions, were often failing the survivors and children who came to them for help. More than 90% of Jewish survivors reported experiencing emotional, psychological, physical, and financial abuse.
The research found that survivors too often face stigma, silence, and minimization when turning to Jewish institutions for help — and that over 80% reported challenges including custody conflicts, isolation, and sexual violence. Communities generally meet survivors’ short-term needs — emergency housing, financial assistance, restraining orders — but struggle to address their long-term needs.
For Jewish survivors, the rise in antisemitism has created additional barriers to seeking help in the broader domestic violence field, where services are not always equipped to respond with cultural sensitivity.
JWI created Here for You to close that gap. An established national program, Here for You strengthens Jewish communal responses to domestic violence by building the capacity of institutions, leaders, and educators to recognize, respond to, and prevent abuse through a coordinated, culturally responsive, trauma-informed, and survivor-centered approach — ensuring survivors and their children are met with safety, compassion, and support that prioritizes their dignity at every point of contact.
Here for You now reaches 12 communities and 150 organizations across the country.
A Community-Wide Approach
Here for You brings the Jewish organizations in a community together to learn, plan, and work in coordination. They train alongside one another, coordinate with local domestic violence providers, and stay connected to JWI over time.
The program focuses on three areas:
Education and Awareness
Participants develop the knowledge, confidence, and skills to recognize domestic violence, respond to disclosures, and refer survivors to appropriate services. JWI provides practical tools and resources — including templates, referral materials, and conversation guides — and supports organizations in developing action plans that strengthen policies and establish clear referral pathways.
Outreach and Collaboration
Jewish organizations coordinate their responses with one another and with local domestic violence agencies, reducing barriers that have made it harder for Jewish survivors to seek help outside the community. This includes building cultural understanding among domestic violence providers so that Jewish survivors encounter services equipped to respond with cultural sensitivity.
Prevention
Communities gain the tools to promote healthy relationships and prevent cycles of harm — including resilience and emotional regulation programming for children, teen dating violence prevention, and healthy relationship education in youth programs, camps, and classrooms.
What Changes in A Here For You Community
Communities create clearer referral pathways and make services more visible and easier to find. Organizations respond more consistently when survivors come forward, leaving fewer survivors isolated. Survivors and their children encounter a wider network of safe entry points into care, which increases access to safety and healing. Jewish communal leaders leave with the tools, confidence, and action plans to respond to domestic violence — and survivors will find more than one trusted place to turn.
JWI provides ongoing guidance and brings partners together to sustain the practices, relationships, and systems the program creates.
What Participants are Saying
“Thank you so much. This was transformative for me. I was afraid it would be more of the same inadequate trainings that I’ve seen for years. That this was of such sensitivity, richness, urgency, and capability... truly feels redemptive and promising. Thank you.”
“Since participating in Here for You, three employees have sought support related to clients experiencing domestic abuse. Because of the program, I had the language and tools to respond effectively.”
The Network of Here for You Communities
12 Here for You communities and 150 organizations across the country. Want to see yours on the map? Contact Alana Blum.
Coming Soon: The Here For You Training + Resource Center
JWI is developing a digital hub of Here for You trainings, tools, and resources that will give Jewish organizations access to the program’s core content on their own time. To be notified when the Training + Resource Center launches — or to help beta test it — contact Alana Blum.
Bring Here For You to Your Community
To bring Here for You to your community or learn more about the program, contact Alana Blum, JWI’s Associate Vice President of Community Response, at [email protected].
This project receives generous support from the Senser Foundation, the Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Philanthropies, and the SRE Network.
Resources
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Jewish Women International’s groundbreaking “Domestic Violence in the Jewish Community: A Needs Assessment” found that Jewish domestic violence survivors felt disbelieved, shunned by, and disconnected from their Jewish communities.
In response to this sobering finding, JWI launched Here for You, a training program that brings local leaders together to establish a supportive community for survivors and their children through education, awareness, and actionable measures.
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Our Here For You Communities are groups of local Jewish organizations collaborating to address domestic violence. These groups meet in person and continue working together to shape a supportive environment for survivors and their children in their local community. Learn more here.
In the more than 50 sites trained by JWI across the country, organizations receive valuable resources and professional support to help them foster safety and resilience for survivors and childrenexposed to domestic violence in their homes. To be designated as a Here For You site, these organizations have received at least one Here For You training session.
Our Here for You trainings empower organizations and communities to put the safety and well-being of survivors and their children at the forefront of their work. Contact Alana Blum to bring Here for You to your community.
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Please complete this brief form to access the Here for You trainings and resources page.
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Domestic Violence 101
Gain essential knowledge on domestic abuse and practical ways to support survivors and their children.DV 101 for Early Childhood Educators
Learn about the dynamics of domestic abuse and practical ways to support your students.Addressing Security & Legal Concerns
Learn how to create safe environments and navigate legal protections for survivors.Here For You: Community Leader Conversation on Addressing Domestic Violence
Engage in a guided discussion with other leaders on domestic abuse and develop concrete next steps to create a welcoming community for survivors and their children.Clergy Workshop
Gain tools and knowledge to support domestic abuse survivors and foster a culture where survivors feel safe coming forwardSupporting Students: A Workshop for School Guidance Counselors
Learn signs of trauma, how to respond effectively, and connect students to the right resources.Building Resiliency: Working with Children Impacted by Trauma
Learn how trauma from domestic abuse affects children and gain strategies to support them in classrooms and youth programs.Healthy Relationships for Teens
Provide teens with the knowledge to recognize healthy and unhealthy relationship dynamics and dating abuse prevention.Tools for Talking to Teens
Learn how to have meaningful discussions with teens about healthy relationships.Camp Director Training
Learn how to foster a safe, supportive camp environment for campers exposed to domestic abuse.Click here to view the full list of training opportunities.
Interested in bringing a workshop to your community?
Contact Alana Blum at [email protected]